看到朋友转寄给我的信里，有这么一段具有意义的故事。
鵑鵑原本在美國工作，公司給她的待遇很好，再加上單身，生活過得很逍遙。
前一陣子她住在臺灣的母親罹患腦瘤，開刀後復原得很慢。鵑鵑立刻請調回臺，找了間公寓，把母親接到身邊就近照顧。鵑鵑不是家中的獨生女，上有大姐，下有弟弟，但是只有她放棄原本的生活，承擔服侍母親的責任。她大姐偶爾給她一筆錢，當作是孝親費，此外很少露面，更別談關心自己母親的現況，好像出點錢就可以心安理得的把母親推給妹妹。我們這些鵑鵑的朋友看不過去，紛紛提醒她要找大姐和弟弟談清楚母親的事。
鵑鵑保持她一貫的優雅從容，靜靜的說：「照顧媽媽是我的福氣。」原本為她打抱不平的我們，聽了這句話，頓時沉默起來。難怪從來不曾聽她抱怨，自認享有「福氣」的人，怎麼會向人訴苦呢？她總是耐著性子尋找適合母親的飲食配方和復健機構，珍惜與母親相處的時光，鵑鵑忙著張羅都來不及了，哪有閒功夫喊累叫煩哪！
在鵑鵑細心打點下，病情不大樂觀的母親，身體竟一天天好起來，母親想要康復的意願也啟動了，甚至會離開臥房到屋外走走。原本令人覺得沉重的擔子，因為鵑鵑懂得惜福，居然化作豐盛的禮物。
現在鵑鵑成了大家的強心劑，每當我們遇到困難，或者受了委屈，習慣性的退縮、放棄、抱怨或指責別人時，總會想起她的話。在我們這一群朋友中，開始流行一種句型：
「能多做一點是我的福氣。」
「孩子不聽話，耐著性子引導他是我的福氣。」
「擠公車沒位子坐是我的福氣。」
說這些話的時候，我們多少帶著點自我解嘲的意味，有時也是開玩笑，但不知不覺中，我們看待周遭人事物的態度有了明顯變化，原來好福氣也是會傳染的。一句話>人生的成敗，常常因為一個人、一件事，甚至一句話而有決定性的影響。尤其對人有用的一句話，勝過千言萬語。
古今中外有很多人因為別人的一句話而深受感動，甚至豁然開朗；由於「一句話」而改變一生的事例，更是多不勝數。美國著名的教育家和演講口才藝術家卡內基，小時候是一個非常調皮的小男孩。他九歲的時候，父親將繼母娶進門。他父親向新婚妻子介紹卡內基時，如是說：「希望你注意這個全郡最壞的男孩，他實在令我頭痛，說不定明天早晨他還會拿石頭砸你，或做出什麼壞事呢！」
出乎卡內基預料的是，繼母微笑地走到他面前，托著他的頭，注視著他。接著告訴丈夫：「你錯了，他不是全郡最壞的男孩，而是最聰明，只是還沒找到發洩熱忱地方的男孩。」
此話一出，卡內基的眼淚不聽使喚地滾滾而下。就因為這一句話，建立了卡內基和繼母之間深厚的感情；也因為這一句話，成就了他立志向上的動力；更因為這一句話，讓他日後幫助千千萬萬的人一同步上了成功之路。
「一句話」很容易說，但重要的是要能讓對方受用。給人一句好話，讓人生命奮起飛揚，何樂而不為呢？所以，人要常說：
第一、給人歡喜的話；
第二、給人鼓勵的話；
第三、給人肯定的話；
第四、給人讚美的話。
多說好話，少說壞話。不經意的一句輕浮話，有時會自毀前程，而一句關懷別人的話，卻能讓沮喪的人有生存下去的勇氣。因此人要經常檢點自己的口舌，以免破壞了好因緣。
转自：是我的福氣 (摘自國語日報) 余蒨如
Oh gosh!
The star show is so nice to watch!
I miss them more after watching it yesterday night...
Wanna know what are they talking about eagerly >.<
Junsoo, your smooth and soft body always made a HOT dance xD
Yunho, you always have 200% confidence while dancing! COOL~!
Micky, you can dance with any kind of music huh?! sexy and unique haha!
Jae, I finally saw your CUTE dance! you grew muscles again! -.-
Changmin, your Horizontal dance move! Even have all people to dance together omg!
I'm glad that finally they are back to Korea!!!
They are going to China soon for concert,
All the best to our boys! =)
Although I'm wishing to be there and enjoy the concert once again T_T
It's funny that all of them wouldn't let their sisters to be with the others!
Changmin even said:
"I want my sisters to meet good guys!"
Ahaha what did you mean Changmin Oppa huh?!
My dolphin boy is GOOD enough,
the Mickey mouse is so sexy and gentle,
the lovely chef is also sweet enough,
and so the well-disciplined daddy too!Changminnnnnn xD
Well, I know you are giving me a "chance".... ahHAHA!!
Here's the star show CUT - [Messages to future wife]
I'm going to faint after listening to their messages...
When the first "Annyeong" from Junsoo... I'm going to die *faint*
Annyeong Honey, I don't know where we would be, but...
if you'd be my wife, I'll make you the happiest person.
And I'll sing for you whenever you want me to.
Gaah~~ I always wish that Junsoo will sing me a song xD
and now he said he will sing to his wife whenver she wants! AAAH~~
*gone mad*
没想到一个Hollywood Bowl可以有将~~多的话题~~
他们的演出成功，也看到了很多仙后哦！
其中看到秀唱的韩文（是国歌？？），那声音啊~~~赞！！
很开心神起和秀都有这么多的支持者哦！
其中最大的话题~~~~ 泰秀阿！！！！
天！！如果不是Az打电话跟我说叫我去看什么事情我都不知道哟！
当下我的心就是~~晴天霹雳！！
NEWS:
시아준수-태연 열애설, “손잡은 모습이 연인같아”
Two idol groups at their peak, their members are rumored to be dating.
Recently there has been a speculation among the netizens that DBSK's Xiah Junsu and SNSD's Taeyeon are dating. These two have been caught on camera.A photo shows the two holding hands as they come down from the stage after the final performance. However, the picture is so poor in quality that no one is sure what exactly was captured on camera.
People have commented by saying "Are they really dating?", "it looks that way because of the angle", "you can hold hands even if you aren't dating, you could be good friends"; this has generally been the reaction to the photo in question.
The words "Xiah Junsu and Taeyeon" have not been seen in the top places of search ranks as of yet.
Credit to Pulug News
而论坛则很多在LA的饭写的感想，当然少不了这热烘烘的泰秀话题！
啊~~那里的饭真幸福~~那些感想阿~~
我也好想看到真人泰妍和Jess呢！
QUOTE (babee012 @ May 18 2008, 03:02 PM) - soompi
super tired.
just got back.
i'll update MONDAY with lots of pictures when i get back to chicago.
and i'll update TOMORROW in detail of everything that happened.but for right now. im so tired.
i'll give you the HIGHLIGHTS of my day :] not into detail.. i'll do that.. tomorrow like i said :]
morning started off at 8am.
got to see chaeyeon's backup dancers <3 freaking hot as hell man. hahaha
following super junior's car all the way to the grove.
bumping into taeyeon at a&f and not even realizing till after she said sorry.
bumping into yunho at nordstrom's and not knowing till after he leaves the damn store
cornering junsu at a&f and getting his autograpgh =x
seeing eunhyuk like 50 thousand times in one day.
witnessing junsu and taeyeon hugging and him pulling on her cheeks and just being all cute with each other and spazzing about it... haha
还有照片，是说秀搂住泰妍的肩膀走着……
嗯他们是说那天泰妍是去逛街的，而和秀一起的时候是穿着同一套衣服。
而韩饭说他们记得以前在颁奖后泰妍哭了，秀也有去抱着她~~
一堆有的没的~~哇~~受刺激！！
泰妍是很可爱的女生，我个人也很喜欢她的呢~
但照片不代表什么哦，呵呵~~还是私心的想~~
我可不希望他又像以前那件假绯闻弄得那么不开心……甚至失望于歌迷对他的不信任！
嗯听说他们到了Las Vegas？
不知道是旅游还是工作呢~希望他们也有自己的时间玩玩哦！
有时候在想，为什么似乎只有偶像艺人才这么没有隐私，常常被追逐？
嗯……也许每个人都对自己很喜爱的人，有“发掘”的兴趣？！
尤其是他们属于大众舞台的人，被认定应该公开一切的概念？
而且还是这么帅气漂亮的偶像是吧……
